To be list

Ambitious person guide to creating your best self

We often create a to do list to be efficient with the tasks we want/need to complete and a bucket list to be fulfilled with our life. But there is another list worth creating, and it is to be list.

To be list focuses on the qualities we want to represent. Which is a journey of creating our best self. Not only will it help on our personal growth journey but it’s a great way to motivate ourselves to do the hard things we often delay.

Another way to look at to be list is correlated with our relationships. As an ambitious person, you look at more than just looks, you care about the values your partner has. You can have a long list of qualities: I want him to be generous, kind, ambitious, driven, ect but are you those things? If so, great, it’s going to be easy to attract the right partner.

Here is a list of ideas, divided into themes you can consider adding to your personal to be list

Emotional Intelligence:

• Be joyful and enthusiastic
• Be loving, caring, and kind-hearted
• Be graceful, gentle, and poised
• Be respectful and considerate
• Be hospitable and generous
• Be optimistic and hopeful
• Be peaceful and calm
• Be grateful and gracious
• Be sincere
• Be nurturing
• Be empathetic and understanding

Integrity and Leadership:

• Be brave and fearless
• Be a visionary leader
• Be wise and discerning
• Be trustworthy and dependable
• Be persuasive and influential (with integrity)
• Be responsible, accountable, and honorable
• Be fair and just
• Be resourceful and adaptable
• Be committed and consistent
• Be punctual and reliable
• Be honest and transparent
• Be decisive and reasonable
• Have integrity and self-control

Personal Empowerment:

• Be confident and resilient
• Be unstoppable and powerful
• Be fearless and courageous
• Be self-assured and firm
• Be original and authentic
• Be ambitious, driven, and goal-oriented
• Be purposeful and intentional
• Embrace freedom and independence
• Be prosperous and successful
• Be curious and continually knowledgeable
• Be free and unbothered
• Have perseverance and persistence
• Be worthy and recognize your worth

Health and Well-being:

• Be healthy and prioritize your well-being
• Be present and mindful
• Be content and fulfilled
• Be disciplined and focused
• Be peaceful and balanced

Self-Worth and Personal Responsibility:

• Be yourself, authentic, and original
• Be accountable and responsible
• Be disciplined and self-controlled
• Be dependable and reliable
• Be ambitious, driven, and goal-oriented
• Be consistent and committed
• Be reasonable and fair
• Be firm and assertive

Social Awareness and Connection:

• Be respectful and considerate of others
• Be generous and giving
• Be hospitable and welcoming
• Be loyal and committed in relationships
• Be compassionate and empathetic
• Be sincere and truthful in your interactions

Grace and Femininity:

• Be elegant and refined
• Be feminine and graceful
• Be poised and gentle
• Be discrete and subtle
• Be nurturing and warm
• Be joyful and radiant
• Be compassionate and loving

Would you create a to be list? Do you think it would be helpful?